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>>goles+(OP)
You do generally need to be far more direct/candid than most people are comfortable with, and that oftentimes makes you seem like a jerk. Takes a lot of finesse to do it right.

>>dchuk+Un
In my job I notice the opposite: people who are successful dont hold back but are diplomatic and are never seen as jerks

>>akkad3+Mp
blatantly diplomatic