What consequences should Gary face?
I think more of him though. Sort of like when a polite old woman tells someone to fuck off and they're literally shook. A lot of people could do with hardening up a bit.
How often have I heard that from bullies who shit themselves, whine and go running to mommy as soon as they get a little of what they give?
You actually mean "shut up, roll over and passively accept abuse." Anyone who hardened-up, as in speaking their honest feeling and the truth about this sort of bully would be banned from here in 5 seconds!
We don't have the option to "harden up", because we value civility and intellectual curiosity, and all know it would make this forum a much worse place.