Then I tried to get people to use Telegram, but hey never implemented encryption by default, instead implementing things like chatrooms with millions of people... then I signed up for Signal, but waited to see what would happen -- and they started doing some weird crypto thing. Thankfully that all seems to have not been an issue, so I might actually start recommending Signal.
These days I use Signal mainly. But also WhatsApp. And Messenger. And SMS for folks who don't have any of the others.
And my iPhone friends complain about how terrible it is to text Android-users, because iMessage.
Oh I should add that it seems that college students these days have standardized on messaging through ... instagram.