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1. Partia+ne[view] [source] 2023-06-12 23:05:48
>>jger15+(OP)
I blew up my life when I moved to Denmark for an MSc studies.

I moved to a new country, amidst covid, without a social support system, without speaking the language, without having financial security.

I was terrified of doing that … but it was around the time in 2020 when r/WSB was growing, and saw people “yolo ing” more money than I ever had. So I said yolo.

I barely made it through; got super depressed due to isolation, lived on the brink of poverty, but some how (thanks GME) I survived. Though I did take a break for a semester.

When I “returned home”, 2 years later, i found myself a stranger, a foreigner. All my friends had moved on, almost everything had changed, and so had I.

Would I do it again? Absolutely. A bit differently; sure. But I’d do it again without hesitation.

And then I did.. I moved to $currentlocation, barely any money, didn’t speak the language. All because I got a job at FAANG because I found an email from some recruiter in my junk folder and responded back. I finished my MSc, leading a project and aiming for promotion.

In about a year or so, I will do it again; almost as if it is becoming a habit.

It is very lonely, I am not going to lie about this, but it is also an adventure.

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2. jamesm+bY[view] [source] 2023-06-13 04:49:46
>>Partia+ne
Hey! I am about to move to (Copenhagen) Denmark in a few weeks from Australia. I am also going in not speaking the language.

Any tips / suggestions?

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