The lack of empathy is incredibly depressing...
The steady progress of the Industrial Revolution that has made the average person unimaginably richer and healthier several times over, looks in the moment just like this:
"Oh no, entire industries of people are being made obsolete, and will have to beg on the streets now".
And yet, as jobs and industries are automated away, we keep getting richer and healthier.
"It'll massively suck for you, but don't worry, it'll be better for everyone else" is little comfort for most of us
But you're off course right that the benefits are unevenly distributed, and for some it truly does suck.