I've seen this twice in this thread, but I don't know what that means. Can you explain a bit?
The common workaround is to use a connection pooler like PGBouncer so that clients reuse connections. This approach doesn’t work for LISTEN because typically a client will listen for its entire lifecycle so you can’t share connections in a pool.
How you setup LISTEN and NOTIFY is app dependent. In a multi-tenant database, you could have 1 NOTIFY channel per tenant.
As you scale, you probably do something that listens in a smarter way, maybe 1 Go channel per client with a single LISTEN instead of 1 database connection per client. The downside is that now the app code is responsible for tenant isolation instead of the database.