This is a beautiful quote because it is an example of one industry's bad behavior leading to another industry's bad behavior, upon which the first industry then users the second's similarity to justify themselves. Cars only started doing this because phones made it normal. It's wrong in both cases.
It's similar to when Apple defended it's 30% store cut by claiming it's an "industry standard"... specifically, an industry standard that Apple established.
These companies know people don’t actively want to be surveilled which is why they sneak this shit in instead of being upfront about it.
If it was so great for consumers it would be an opt in not an opt out hidden behind a series of dark patterns.
Even Apple switches Siri back on after every OS upgrade.