zlacker

>>femfos+(OP)
I'm reading a whole lot of frustrated comments here and totally get where the frustration is coming from. But in a different direction, I wanted to offer a thought for how to improve:

Rule #1: Always ask people if they want feedback before you give it. Do it for men, women and non-binary folks. If you can, give hints about the topic ("hey, would you like feedback about your skills alignment with the problem?").

I've always been amazed at how much better feedback is received by anyone when they've explicitly agreed to hear it.

>>robbmo+M41
As a counter-point, I've known people that would take this as condescending right off the bat, so YMMV.

>>fastba+N61
If people take this as condescending then maybe they aren't mature enough to be worth interacting with, though.