"I’m not going to suggest a solution to the problem of men clamming up." If not, then perhaps that's the wrong problem statement, and solutions will become more readily obvious and suggestible when not coached as the problem of men.
That's as candid as I can make it, and I feel that I have to use a throwaway account to do so.
The author is, perhaps inadvertently, contributing to the problem.
BTW, yeah, this is one of my alt accounts.