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>>femfos+(OP)
I wrote a long reply to this and then binned it. Perhaps that captures the essence of what I was going to say.

>>mmaund+L8
Same here, it's not really worth trying. You feel like you're being completely reasonable, but you just know that any mistake in wording, minor details or missteps, is going to be used to attack you. Any relevant comment or question you have will be sidesteps, to attack and label you.