When the taxpayers are citizens with voting rights they do bear responsibility for the actions of the state they voted in.
Not every tyrannical decision is made by the majority, and not every majority decision is tyrannical.
We make collective decisions, and we live with the consequences. Every election presents us with such a decision. Moreover, voting is not the limit. If you truly believe a particular candidate is bad, you are free to share your ideas, donate to his opponent, or perhaps even run against him yourself.