I know some people use Akka with Persistence module, but I would welcome other alternatives.
Reliable and durable? Emphatically not Redis, and at that point you probably want to just start looking at SQS.
(I've had good luck shipping products as docker-compose files, these days. Even to fairly backwards clients.)
You can configure Redis for durability. The docs[1] page for persistence has a good examination of the pros and cons.