Well, GNU grep was last released 16 months ago, and the last change to its master branch was 4 weeks ago: http://git.savannah.gnu.org/cgit/grep.git
FreeBSD's grep was last updated back in August: https://github.com/freebsd/freebsd/tree/master/usr.bin/grep
OpenBSD's grep was last updated 11 months ago: http://cvsweb.openbsd.org/cgi-bin/cvsweb/src/usr.bin/grep/
Oddly, it looks like the Darwin grep was last updated in 2012: https://opensource.apple.com/source/text_cmds/text_cmds-99/g...
Strange that Apple would be shipping such an ancient grep.
Neither of these statements are true. grep on FreeBSD is still GNU grep, and it has a distinct version text from bsdgrep:
$ grep -V
grep (GNU grep) 2.5.1-FreeBSD
Copyright 1988, 1992-1999, 2000, 2001 Free Software Foundation, Inc.
This is free software; see the source for copying conditions. There is NO
warranty; not even for MERCHANTABILITY or FITNESS FOR A PARTICULAR PURPOSE.
$ bsdgrep -V
bsdgrep (BSD grep) 2.6.0-FreeBSD
$ uname -rK
13.0-CURRENT 1300003