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>>stable+(OP)
Honest question, does HN feel unwelcoming or uncomfortable for women? In particular: “I’ve found that some conversations online escalate to shouting matches quickly” do female HN users identify this with HN? Not saying Leap shouldn’t exist or anything, I’m just wondering if HN has these particular issues that I haven’t personally recognised.

>>mcinty+bE
I'm a guy, and it becomes very clear just how aggressive and debate-based male-majority communities are after spending some time in communities with a large percentage of women. There's seemingly no joy or "chill" at all — just a constant clash of ideas and ideologies. Not to mention the relentless sarcasm, snark, and snippiness, if not outright mockery. It's very rare to see someone say they're sorry or to change their mind. Honestly, it's fatiguing.

Which is not to say that many women wouldn't enjoy that kind of high-octane environment! Hey, different strokes etc. All I know is that for me personally — someone who goes online to have fun, not to be right — it's a lot more pleasant to hang out in mixed-gender communities than in male-dominated ones.

(Then again, here I am on HN, slingin' ideas again, sooo...)

(Also, I have to apologize for responding to a question directed towards women in the most stereotypical "as a dude" kind of way. To be honest, I should have probably held off...)